The five things you should never say on a dating app – Yahoo! Voices
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Dating apps are pretty much the only way to meet nowadays – and during lockdown, they proved a lifeline for Britain’s singles, robbed of office flirtations and banter in clubs and bars.
The only problem is, striking up the chat can be awkward, as many failed liaisons have proved. Some go too emotionally deep too soon, others make crude jokes or ramble due to nerves. Some get hot and heavy before they’ve even exchanged basic details, others hold back, or weep over their exes.
So to avoid your new online romance going sour before the profile photo loads, here’s what goes well as a conversational topic – and what isn’t quite so welcome, according to a new survey by Curry’s PC World.
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A hefty 38% said hobbies are the top ‘safe’ topic, allowing you to reveal a little about yourself without going too far. An efficient 29% thought work was a good bet, and a foward-planning 27% were keen to talk about future goals and plans.
Meanwhile, almost a quarter thought it best to get down to basics, and discuss why you’re on the app in the first place.
However, once the polite stuff is out of the way, daters can stray into a minefield.
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A huge 93% thought discussions of each other’s finances were a big no-no, with only 7% willing to open up on that topic- perhaps because they’re very rich and happy to boast.
Almost as bad was sexual preferences. In an initial ‘getting to know you’ chat, 91% thought this was out of bounds. However, that still leaves 9% perfectly happy to reveal all to a total stranger, and we’re guessing they might be mostly male.
A significant 89% thought going anywhere near politics initially was a bad idea, perhaps all too aware that words such as ‘Brexit’ and ‘masks’ could spark a meltdown on both sides.
Political debate and disagreement is generally saved for further down the line, usually when you’re meeting their parents for the first time and suddenly realise they’re terrible old bigots.
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